Open relationships can be challenging, especially for those of us who grew up in monogamous households. However, they can also be fulfilling, rewarding, and just plain fun. If you and your partner(s) decide to open your relationship with specific rules and boundaries in place, it’s important to adhere to them. A Reddit user recently shared his experience of dealing with fallout from choices his wife made in their newly-open relationship. It’s a rocky situation that has gotten complicated, and some Reddit users have opinions on who’s at fault. Here’s how it all went down, and what readers in Reddit’s Am I the Asshole (AITA) forum had to say. Opinions range from some blaming the husband to others advising him to leave. They suggest counseling as a possible solution, or deciding to let the relationship go. Either way, it doesn’t seem like the open relationship is helping in this situation.