My initial visit to the gynecologist is a distant memory, filled with feelings of anxiety and unease. As I prepare my daughter for her first appointment, I realize I am unsure of what to expect. Seeking guidance, SheKnows consulted with Dr. Kameelah Phillips, a Board-Certified OB/GYN, to answer our pressing questions about this important milestone.
When to schedule this appointment is a common concern among parents. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends a first visit between ages 13 and 15, but individual circumstances may vary. Dr. Phillips suggests starting before puberty or at pivotal life stages like starting college.
Preparation is key to easing anxiety. Teaching your child accurate anatomical terms early on is beneficial. By sharing your own experiences and setting expectations, you can empower your child to feel more in control.
During the first visit, topics such as body changes, menstruation, sexual activity, and contraception may be discussed. Dr. Phillips emphasizes the importance of open dialogue and correcting misinformation.
Parental involvement is encouraged, but privacy is respected. Establishing a balance between support and independence is crucial. Selecting the right gynecologist is also important. Trust and comfort are key factors in making this choice.
Ultimately, emphasizing the importance of overall health and regular appointments is essential. Educating our children on self-care is a lifelong gift we can give them.
