Time flies, doesn’t it? It’s hard to believe that what feels like 10 years ago is actually the 90’s —- 30 years ago.
I often find myself wishing for a Wayback Machine, hoping for a chance to make different choices and take different actions. Of course, I know that everything I’ve experienced has shaped me, but it’s still fun to pretend.
Looking back, there are some decisions and habits that have had a lasting impact on my life. Here’s what I wish I could tell my younger self:
- Don’t sell the McDonald’s stock. (I regret letting trading fees and the stock’s lack of movement sway me. If I had held on, I’d be enjoying life on my yacht in Monaco now.)
- Hold on to the house, no matter what Michael said. (Not just once, but twice! Ouch!)
- Get over your fear of driving! (My fear of driving really limited my choices and activities. I wish I had worked on overcoming it sooner.)
- Don’t postpone joy. (I’ve learned that I don’t have to ‘earn’ happiness or wait for the perfect time. I should have been happier in the moment.)
- Seek and heed the advice of medical, legal, and financial professionals. (I should have taken my vitamins, read the directions, and made time for important matters.)
- Nurture relationships with people who truly value you, not just because they’re family.
- Stop worrying about things beyond your control.
- Ease up on the stilettos. (I can only wear sneakers now.)
Your Turn
But that’s my story. What about you? What advice would you give your younger self? Share your thoughts in the comments!
Virge Randall is Senior Planet’s Managing Editor. She is also a freelance culture reporter who seeks out hidden gems and undersung treasures for Straus Newspapers; her blog “Don’t Get Me Started” puts a quirky new spin on Old School New York City. Send your suggestions for Open Threads to her at editor@seniorplanet.org.
