October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and December is my birthday month. In December 2014, I missed my yearly mammogram due to a busy schedule. In June 2015, after finally getting the mammogram, I received a call about an abnormality and needed a biopsy. Despite being a nurse and knowing the implications, I remained calm and had the biopsy done. The news of breast cancer hit me hard, but I continued my work routine as a hospice nurse, taking comfort in my daily nap.
When scheduling the lumpectomy, I faced dismissive treatment from a nurse and decided to switch providers. The delay revealed that my breast cancer had spread to the bone, leading to a stage 4 diagnosis. The news was devastating, but the impending arrival of my grandchild brought hope during the treatment process.
After rigorous treatments and surgeries, I eventually received good news in 2016. However, subsequent health complications left me unable to work. Seeking financial resources, I found support through Living Beyond Breast Cancer and attended a conference that changed my outlook on life. I engaged in advocacy work and research projects, aiming to improve clinical trial inclusivity for Black individuals.
The BECOME research project shed light on the lack of conversation and inclusion of Black people in clinical trials, prompting me to organize an event addressing this issue. The overwhelming response at the event showcased the importance of diverse representation in the fight against metastatic breast cancer.
Despite the hardships faced throughout my cancer journey, I found purpose in advocating for others and raising awareness about the disparities within breast cancer research. The road ahead may be challenging, but the support from the community keeps me driven to make a difference.
