When it Comes to Orgasms, The Possibilities are Endless
Orgasms are a complex and varied topic, with a wide range of experiences and sensations. Each individual may experience orgasms differently, with variations in how they feel, how long they last, and the sensations they involve. There are also different pleasure points that can lead to orgasm.
While there are many potential orgasms that a person may be able to achieve, it’s important to remember that not all types of orgasms are feasible or appealing to everyone – and that’s perfectly okay. In this article, we will focus on orgasms for individuals with a vagina and clitoris.
Certified sex and relationships psychotherapist and sex educator Gigi Engle emphasizes that achieving orgasm is not the only measure of sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Putting pressure on oneself to reach orgasm can actually hinder the experience. Engle suggests focusing on experiencing sexual pleasure for its own sake, rather than solely aiming for orgasm.
Barbara Carrellas, a certified sexologist, advises that exploring your own body first can help you communicate more effectively with a partner and enhance your sexual experiences. Knowing what you like and what feels good to you is key to achieving orgasm.
Ultimately, there is no ‘normal’ when it comes to orgasms and sexual experiences. It’s important to explore what works best for you and your body, without placing undue pressure on yourself or your partner. If you’re curious and comfortable, here are six lesser-known types of orgasm to consider exploring:
Anal Orgasm
Anal sex can lead to intense orgasms for some individuals, as the anal canal contains many nerve endings that can lead to sensations of pleasure. The anatomy of the clitoris suggests that all orgasms, regardless of how they occur, are clitoral in nature.
“There are some women who have orgasms through anal sex; they’re able to reach the interior walls of the clitoris through the anus,” explains Engle. The G-spot, an internal area of the clitoris, can be indirectly reached through anal penetration.
Energy Orgasm
An energy orgasm is a release of stored-up tension in both the body and mind, often leading to feelings of profound relaxation and satisfaction. It can happen without any physical stimulation and may extend beyond the limits of the body.
Emotional Orgasm
Emotion-gasms, as Carrellas calls them, involve a buildup of energy through breath, movement, sound, and muscle contractions, followed by a release. These types of orgasms can be triggered by intense emotions, whether erotic or not.
Whether you’re looking to experiment with different types of orgasms or simply exploring what brings you pleasure, remember to prioritize your own comfort and curiosity. Your sexual experiences should be about enjoyment and connection, rather than meeting a specific goal of orgasm.
