Marriage has long been glorified as a life milestone, leading to the shaming of single individuals, especially women. Psychologist Bella DePaulo calls this phenomenon “mental blanketing,” where marriage is idealized and singlehood is stigmatized.
Interestingly, a growing number of Americans are choosing to remain single, debunking the myth that all singles are seeking romantic relationships. US census data from 2017 shows that 45% of adults in the US were single, with a significant percentage never having been married.
The Rise of Singledom
In recent years, the number of single Americans has been steadily increasing. Surveys indicate that a significant portion of these singles are content with their relationship status and have no desire for a serious romantic commitment.
Survey Says: Singles Like Being Single
Contrary to popular belief, many single Americans are happy being single and have no interest in pursuing romantic relationships. Studies show that a substantial percentage of unmarried individuals are not actively seeking a partner.
Newer Data Agrees
Recent studies by organizations like the Pew Research Center further confirm the trend of declining interest in committed relationships among singles. These findings hold true not just in the US but globally, indicating a shift in societal attitudes towards marriage.
Why Are People Uninterested in Marriage?
Research shows that individuals who have been previously married are often the least interested in pursuing new relationships. Reasons cited for choosing to remain single include prioritizing other aspects of life and simply enjoying the freedom of singlehood.
The Pressure is Off
The shift away from societal pressure to marry or seek romantic partners is becoming more pronounced, particularly among older age groups. Factors such as personal priorities, career advancement, and individual preferences are playing a significant role in people’s decision to stay single.
For many, being single is no longer a source of fear or stigma but a conscious choice that aligns with their lifestyle and values. The growing trend of embracing singlehood indicates a cultural shift towards valuing independence and self-fulfillment over traditional relationship norms.
