*Photo credit Monique Feil
While I have been fortunate enough to avoid hospitals as a patient, my experiences as a practitioner in medical settings have shed light on the importance of empathy in healthcare. The movie The Doctor eloquently portrays how a doctor’s personal experience as a patient can lead to a deeper understanding and empathy for those in their care.
On a personal note, I have faced recurring dental issues since childhood due to congenital abnormalities. The numerous surgeries and procedures I underwent at a young age left me with profound anxiety surrounding dental visits. This trauma is not unique to me; many individuals have been scarred by medical or dental experiences. It is a topic we will delve into in my upcoming online workshop, Healing Medical Trauma, starting on May 9.
A Little Empathy Goes A Long Way
During the early stages of the pandemic, I faced a dental emergency that triggered a cascade of further procedures. The experience was terrifying, bringing back memories of past traumas. As I sat in the dentist’s chair, my body trembling with fear, I was met with insensitivity from the unfamiliar dentist. However, a kind dental technician offered me solace with gentle words and a compassionate touch, offsetting the distress caused by the dentist’s lack of empathy.
The Paradox of Healing & Harming
As healthcare providers, we must acknowledge the delicate balance between healing and causing harm. Despite our best intentions, there are moments where our actions may inadvertently cause distress. It is essential to confront this reality and extend compassion to those we care for. By embracing the paradox of healing and harming, we can minimize the negative impact of our actions and offer comfort to those in need.
To explore these themes further and learn healing techniques to navigate challenging medical experiences, join me and a select group of healers in the workshop Healing Medical Trauma. Register before May 9 to participate.